Inter-gender friendship

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Do you have friends of the opposite sex?

Yes
2
40%
No
3
60%
 
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Inter-gender friendship

Postby Muhammad Mahdi » 13 Feb 2011, 04:38

These days many people have friends of the opposite sex. Such friendships are usually looked down upon by Islam.

My question, do you have such friends? If so, do you consider it to be ok?
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Re: Inter-gender friendship

Postby Muhammad Mahdi » 14 Feb 2011, 12:38

Those who have posted, cud u pls share yr thots?
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Re: Inter-gender friendship

Postby qamar » 15 Feb 2011, 20:34

wats wrong with having friends?
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Re: Inter-gender friendship

Postby Muhammad Mahdi » 15 Feb 2011, 21:18

Nothing wrong with friends. It's friends of the opposite sex that I question.

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Re: Inter-gender friendship

Postby qamar » 20 Feb 2011, 21:11

Yeah wats wrong with tat?
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Re: Inter-gender friendship

Postby Muhammad Mahdi » 21 Feb 2011, 03:53

qamar wrote:Yeah wats wrong with tat?


With friends of the opposite sex?

Its a risky business.
Narrated from the prophet, (pbuh) “No man is alone with a woman but the shaytaan is the third one present.”
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Re: Inter-gender friendship

Postby fsl96 » 11 Oct 2013, 17:30

salams,
Well it depends on your thinking. Shaitan doesn't force does he :)
there is no problem in having inter friendships as long as distance and jokes are limited.
it shouldn't go such an extent, but rather be with the necessary subject u r talking about. example school, college, business.

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