- 11 Feb 2011, 03:39
#15257
qamar wrote:if only under some circumstances a man is allowed to marry more than one wife then this shud be mentioned clearly by mawlanas but i have never heard anything like thatThe maulanas are male and therefore, biased. Get a female "maulana" and she'll tell you. Jokes aside, I think the Quran, ahadith and Sunnah of the Masoomeen (pbut) have already specified the conditions as mentioned above.
sadika wrote:Can anyone relly luv n care 4 4 women equally? Like luv each one as much as the other?Interestingly, the Quran answers this question when it talks about doing justice to the wives. The answer (from the Quran 4:129) is NO, a man can't love and care for all his wives equally no matter how hard he tries. The only requirement is that the man treat his wives equally even if he does not feel the same about them, which is very very hard for a regular human being.
If Allah assists you, there is none that can overcome you; and if He forsakes you, then who is there that can assist you after Him? And on Allah should the believers rely (Qur'an 3:160)