- 27 Nov 2004, 01:33
#673
Although an issue that may be delicate to touch upon, I feel that it is the delicate issues that should be discussed.
I was prompted to start this topic due to a point made by brother Mohamedraza Jaffer in another discussion at Ask!
I was prompted to start this topic due to a point made by brother Mohamedraza Jaffer in another discussion at Ask!
Mohamedraza Jaffer wrote:Walykum salaam sister SajidaLet us discuss this. Give your views and comments
You have hit the nail by pointing out the most essential need in the successful marriage.
However, there are some other problems that also needs a great considaration and that is our "riwage" wrong systems in marriage.
We man think that a woman becomes our property when we marry them. we never realize the sacrifices that she makes to be our married partner.
When a woman gets married in our community that means she gets married not to the man only but the entire family. She has to serve every one at home like an Aya.
Let us refer to the family life in Islam which clearly reccomends that the children after getting married should stay by themselves and not with the parents if it is affordable.
That does not mean that parents should be ignored but on the cotrary the love between the children and parents increases.
Please comment on this suggestion.
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