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Re: Abdullah's Counseling Thread

 by Abdullah ¦  13 Dec 2010, 18:15 ¦  Forum: Advice ¦  Topic: Abdullah's Counseling Thread ¦  Replies: 21 ¦  Views: 9403

greetings dear brother during the brief period that i have been counseling youths, the most common questions I deal with are related to the issue that you have described. In 'modern' psychology we are taught that what the majority accept as normal and engage in, then that is ethical/good (i.e. canno...

Re: sunni and shia attitude to abortion

 by Abdullah ¦  08 Sep 2009, 10:42 ¦  Forum: Q & A with Sh. Saqalain Abbas ¦  Topic: sunni and shia attitude to abortion ¦  Replies: 7 ¦  Views: 5782

How should i support my girlfriend if she wants an abortion? My girlfriend appears to have the early signs of pregnancy but we are not positive yet. We are both 18 years old and seniors in highschool. I moved 17 hours away from her just as she is beginning to have early signs. She says she will hav...

Re: Abdullah's Counseling Thread

 by Abdullah ¦  30 Jul 2009, 01:18 ¦  Forum: Advice ¦  Topic: Abdullah's Counseling Thread ¦  Replies: 21 ¦  Views: 9403

SA need some advice and help in this matter pls i'm told it jamaat has kept conditions for those wanting to get married and this has to be signed by groom and bride Do you know what these conditions r? what if a bride doesnt want to follow them? is putting this conditions even islamic? has any imam...

Re: Abdullah's Counseling Thread

 by Abdullah ¦  13 Feb 2008, 21:16 ¦  Forum: Advice ¦  Topic: Abdullah's Counseling Thread ¦  Replies: 21 ¦  Views: 9403

Brothers and sisters If the above advices have been of help or if they have failed to help, please let me know by email With the help of Ask, I may be able to advice those who need advice over phone as well on a trial basis (for now) If you wish to contact me via phone, you need to contact Br. Hasin...

Re: Abdullah's Counseling Thread

 by Abdullah ¦  12 Feb 2008, 14:25 ¦  Forum: Advice ¦  Topic: Abdullah's Counseling Thread ¦  Replies: 21 ¦  Views: 9403

Salaam Alaikum. My brother is totally out of religion, he does not pray and is into drugs he has bad friends..comes home late..and we have tried many ways to help him come to the right path...but he does not listen.. can you advise how to go about this situation and how to help him come out of his ...

Re: Abdullah's Counseling Thread

 by Abdullah ¦  12 Feb 2008, 01:48 ¦  Forum: Advice ¦  Topic: Abdullah's Counseling Thread ¦  Replies: 21 ¦  Views: 9403

Q.2) Can u clarify the sins/punishments for a women when her hairs are visible in public place like in a shop? or to a nameh'ram. And how to make her realize that she is just following a kind of custom by wearing it when she's going out in Masjids n imambargah and not understanding it properly ? i ...

Re: Abdullah's Counseling Thread

 by Abdullah ¦  12 Feb 2008, 01:46 ¦  Forum: Advice ¦  Topic: Abdullah's Counseling Thread ¦  Replies: 21 ¦  Views: 9403

Another thing is my mother is not much literate. She has just done her Matric. She's from pakistan. She wears Hijab when she goes out of home BUT the problem is when a na'mehram person enters our house, she is least concerned about hiding her hairs etc. Like when our driver comes in, mum never hide...

Re: Abdullah's Counseling Thread

 by Abdullah ¦  12 Feb 2008, 01:37 ¦  Forum: Advice ¦  Topic: Abdullah's Counseling Thread ¦  Replies: 21 ¦  Views: 9403

My apologies for not answering these questions for so long. No excuse is excusable. I hope the brothers and sisters will forgive me. salaams bro, Me and my family are following the taqleed of Agha Seestani. Masha Allah i have very good parents & they have done so much for me, i always thank Allah fo...

Re: Islamic Quiz

 by Abdullah ¦  21 Sep 2007, 15:56 ¦  Forum: General Issues ¦  Topic: Islamic Quiz ¦  Replies: 324 ¦  Views: 50184

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Re: Islamic Quiz

 by Abdullah ¦  15 Sep 2007, 01:54 ¦  Forum: General Issues ¦  Topic: Islamic Quiz ¦  Replies: 324 ¦  Views: 50184

Lying about Allah, the Holy Prophet and the Holy Imams

Re: Abdullah's Counseling Thread

 by Abdullah ¦  15 Sep 2007, 01:47 ¦  Forum: Advice ¦  Topic: Abdullah's Counseling Thread ¦  Replies: 21 ¦  Views: 9403

Alaykum Salaam bro, Thank you for putting forward your questions. May I first congratulate you for your struggle and endeavor to try and gain more knowledge and to understand and follow the true-islam, in deed and word. That is very commendable among the youth and adult alike in our community. I alw...

Re: Abdullah's Counseling Thread

 by Abdullah ¦  13 Sep 2007, 22:19 ¦  Forum: Advice ¦  Topic: Abdullah's Counseling Thread ¦  Replies: 21 ¦  Views: 9403

So far, I have not received any questions or queries. I am hoping that means alhamdulilah we dont have soo many issues bothering youths in our community :lol:

Dont hesitate to give me a shout should there be anything!

 by Abdullah ¦  11 Sep 2007, 09:19 ¦  Forum: Advice ¦  Topic: Abdullah's Counseling Thread ¦  Replies: 21 ¦  Views: 9403

Thanks brother hasin for the kind introduction.

Through the experience I have had with young people in Dar es Salaam, the two main general issues that always come up are: -

1. Marriage Problems
2. Teen issues - going out, sexuality, freedom and so on.

So, let those questions come.

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